How to Say Romantic Phrases in Thai

Meaning: I love you, the classic, clear, and polite way. Men typically say phom, women say chan, though many couples drop the pronoun and just say rak khun or even simply rak when context is obvious.

How to use: Perfect for meaningful moments, anniversaries, or when you want to be unmistakably sincere. You can soften it with particles: rak khun na adds tenderness, and rak khun na kha/khrap is sweet and polite. With closer partners, switch “khun” to the name or to the intimate “ter” for a warmer feel: chan/phalom rak ter.

Tip: Thai delivery matters. Smile, keep a gentle tone, and avoid saying it too loudly. If texting, a heart emoji or LINE sticker is very Thai and keeps it cute.

Meaning: Love you, a cute, casual version that sounds affectionate without being too heavy. The little particle na softens everything and adds warmth.

How to use: Send it by text at the end of a chat, say it when you part ways, or whisper it during a cuddle. You can dial up the sweetness with rak na ja or keep it polite with rak na kha/khrap. For extra emphasis, say rak na mak (love you so much) or add your partner’s name for intimacy.

Tip: This is the go-to phrase on LINE stickers and Instagram captions. If you are not ready for a grand declaration, rak na is your friendly middle ground.

Meaning: I miss you. It literally means “thinking of,” but in Thai it carries the emotion of missing someone. You can add intensity with mak (very): khit thueng mak.

How to use: Perfect for long-distance days or when work keeps you apart. Say khit thueng ter to be intimate, or keep it polite with khit thueng khun. Add softeners: khit thueng na, or polite endings: khit thueng na kha/khrap. For extra warmth, pair it with a plan: khit thueng na, jer gan wan nii mai? (Miss you, shall we meet today?).

Tip: In texts, many Thais write it without spaces: khitthueng or with cute elongations like khitthuenggg to exaggerate the feeling.

Meaning: You’re very cute. Narak means “cute/adorable,” and it is universal for all genders. If you are close, replace khun with your partner’s name or ter.

How to use: Great as a spontaneous compliment on a date, after they dress up, or when they do something thoughtful. Variations include narak jing (really cute) and narak mak mak (so, so cute). Keep delivery light and sincere.

Tip: For a masculine compliment, you will also hear lor mak (very handsome), but narak works wonderfully for everyone and sounds more affectionate.

Meaning: Sweet dreams, sleep well. A bedtime staple in Thai couples’ chats. The particle na softens it and makes it tender.

How to use: Say it before sleep, add a heart or moon emoji, or go with fan dee na kha/khrap for polite sweetness. You can add a promise: fan dee na, phop gan phro wan mai (sleep well, see you tomorrow). For long-distance, try fan dee na, khit thueng na to layer in “miss you.”

Tip: Many Thais combine it with a term of endearment or a nickname. Using your partner’s Thai nickname plus na is peak Thai cuteness.

Meaning: Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend? The phrase literally means “Shall we be lovers?” and is a natural way to make it official.

How to use: Ask in a soft tone, ideally in a private, romantic setting. You can make it extra sweet with a softener, pen faen gan mai na, or be politely earnest with …na kha/khrap. If you want to keep it casual, try pen faen gan loei mai? (Shall we just be together?).

Tip: Thai proposals to “be official” often come after consistent dating and care. Pair your words with a small gift or shared memory to make it feel heartfelt, not pressured.

Meaning: Can I have a hug? Literally “May I hug a bit?” It is affectionate, gentle, and respectful because you are asking, not assuming.

How to use: Perfect after a long day, when comforting your partner, or during a cozy movie night. In a close relationship you might simply say yak god (I want a hug) or add intimacy with god noi na. Polite endings keep it sweet and considerate: …dai mai kha/khrap.

Tip: If you mean a kiss on the cheek, Thai uses hom instead of joop (kiss on the lips). Keep your language aligned with your intent.

Meaning: I want to be by your side. This expresses steady commitment without sounding overly dramatic. Swap khun for a name or ter for intimacy.

How to use: Use it during deeper conversations about the relationship, future plans, or after supporting each other through something tough. Add talot pai (forever/always) to intensify: yaak yuu khang khang ter talot pai. You can also soften with na or make it politely warm with kha/khrap.

Tip: Thai romance often emphasizes care and presence. This line speaks to Thai values of being dependable and considerate.

Meaning: I’ll always take care of you. It promises ongoing support, which Thais consider a core sign of love.

How to use: Say it when your partner is stressed, unwell, or worried about the future. If you prefer polite rather than intimate, swap ter for khun. You can also say chan/ phom ja duu lae khun samer for extra clarity. Add a softener if you like: …na or …na kha/khrap.

Tip: Back it up with actions. Small daily gestures, like picking up dinner or sending medicine, make this phrase feel real in Thai culture.

Meaning: Love you so, so much. Mak means “very,” and repeating it doubles the intensity in a cute, casual way.

How to use: Text it after a great date or when you’re feeling extra affectionate. You can attach it to the classic line: rak khun mak mak, or keep it intimate with rak ter mak mak. In speech, lighten your voice and smile to keep it sweet, not heavy.

Tip: For an even gentler feel, add na to the end: rak mak mak na. If you want to be polite and sweet, finish with kha/khrap.

Meaning: Will you marry me? The straightforward Thai proposal. Swap chan for phom if you are male, or drop the pronoun when context is obvious: taeng ngaan gap khun mai?

How to use: Use it only when you are ready, in a private or thoughtfully chosen spot. Add softness and respect with na and a polite ending: taeng ngaan gap chan mai na kha/khrap. Many Thais appreciate sincerity over grand theatrics.

Tip: After a “yes,” follow up with loving care phrases like ja duu lae ter samer and keep using everyday sweetness such as fan dee na and khit thueng.